Participants at a recent Girls Pint Out event in Hartford. Photo by Will Siss
Participants at a recent Girls Pint Out event in Hartford. Photo by Will Siss

As a man, I take a lot for granted.

I’ve never been handed a wine list at a beer bar. I’ve never had to endure a warning that the India pale ale I ordered would be too bitter for someone like me. I’ve never been ogled or groped or made to feel like I didn’t belong at a brew fest.

Enough women have suffered these indignities to make the beer community – even the open and groovy craft beer scene – a sometimes unwelcoming one. The charge elicits knee-jerk protest from bearded beer geeks like me: “I treat everyone equally! I’m not prejudiced! Everybody’s welcome under the beer tent!”

I try to check my ego at the door and open my ears to some truth on a Friday night at a Connecticut Girls Pint Out event in Hartford. Girls Pint Out (GPO; is a national, nonprofit organization that started in 2010; its mission is to build a strong community for women beer drinkers. In more than 35 states, women get together over beer and usually an activity like brewing or jewelry-making.

One of CT GPO’s leaders, CJ Manuel, serves as my liaison into the GPO world. She organized the free event at Hartford Prints!, a cool little store that specializes in personalized stationery and items like t-shirts and jewelry. The store is closed, and the women and I hang out in the back, in what feels like the living room of a small apartment, with a couch, table for designing crafts and a kitchenette.

For the next few hours I lurk the best I can without consciously making the 15 attendees feel awkward. Everyone brings at least two bottles of beer to share, so a table of local ales like East Windor’s Broad Brook Brewing’s Pink Dragon Wit, several high-end sours and at least one homebrewed stout glimmer invitingly and serve as the focal point for mingling.

Some munch on pizza and the conversation generally seems to be about… beer. Where they’ve had it, what they like, what they’re brewing, and what they want. One woman seems very excited about finding Hobbit Juice infused with cherry from Stonington’s Beer’d Brewing.

It was just such a setting that Manuel was seeking when she Googled “girls who like beer, meet-up” a little more than a year ago. When GPO came up, she knew that she had found her community. Connecticut had had a chapter, but it had closed, Manuel explained. Since helping reignite CT GPO last year, Manuel has seen membership explode to about 1,400.

“Sometimes you just want to be out without the boys,” she says, sipping mead from her tasting glass.

Manuel and three other organizers in the state lead events about twice a month. They showcase each location, which recently included Brew & Wine Hobby in East Hartford and Stony Creek Brewing in Branford. The point is to find a place where people can learn, create and have actual conversations instead of shouting over one another.

Conversations with guys can be difficult when it comes to beer, according to Manuel, a Texas native who works as an actuary. “Men can sometimes ‘mansplain’ beer to women,” she says. In other words, we talk down to women, as if their little lady minds couldn’t possibly handle the complicated calculus that is alcohol-by volume, or the difference between lager and ale. I have made these stupid assumptions myself.

“When I first started [going to GPO events], I don’t think I would have asked the bartender questions about beer,” says Manuel. “Here, it’s different. I can ask. I don’t feel like people are going to judge me.”

Amanda Wishin, the national president of GPO, says that the growth of the organization to about 75 chapters throughout the country reflects a strong desire by women to form community around beer.

“It’s always been thought of as a guys’ thing, and this sort of gives women who have always liked beer an outlet to explore interests and hang out with like-minded tastes,” Wishin says. Many women who participate were not really “beer people” before, but have learned to love it.

There is no membership process with GPO, explained Wishin, who is a lawyer in Indianapolis. “Events are open to whoever comes to them,” she says. “Our age range varies greatly, and each chapter is different based on who is running it and the location.”

Is beer welcoming to women?

I grew up in an era when beer meant beer commercials about guys debating whether their beer tasted great or was less filling (spoiler alert: it was less filling). The ads that didn’t feature Clydesdales featured women as setting instead of character. If you drank this beer, this attractive woman will sidle up to you, and not because she wants to engage with you about the merits of canning versus bottling. In other ads, women were simply placed in bathing suits just because.

With the rise of craft beer during the past 10 years or so, the focus seemed to be shifting from female objectification to a look at the ingredients. Sam Adams ads had lovingly close-up shots of hops and the women who sipped the beers were dressed for work, not the beach.

But over the past few years, even smaller breweries are turning to the age-old technique of using innuendo to sell their products. I’ve seen more “blond ale” labels featuring scantily clad women than I can count. Does a close-up of a woman’s bum for a beer called “Tramp Stamp” make you think of Belgian-style ale? Other examples exist that I cannot with taste put in a newspaper.

By several accounts, women make up about a quarter of total beer consumption in the U.S. and nearly 40 percent of the market when it comes to craft beer. And while there are plenty of men and women who say, “Lighten up, bro, it’s just beer,” it’s a topic that deserves raising (and I’m hardly the first to do so).

One of my colleagues, Carla Jean Lauter, writes a column called “Beer Babe” in Maine. She’s covered the topic of women in craft beer and sees how some women could be turned off by the beer scene. “As a woman in craft beer I’ve come across some people at first blush who would not think of me as being into beer,” she says. “I tend to get a test question first so that I can prove I know what I’m talking about.”

Lauter says bars that serve a lot of craft beer seem to be changing those assumptions, and she has seen more women at beer festivals than she did eight years ago, when she started going to them. “There’s just more participation [from women] in general,” Lauter says. “I’ve seen more women working in tasting rooms at breweries and there are more groups that are just women coming in. That makes for a better environment. It’s a great balance and I love it.”

A Chicago writer who focuses on beer and science topics in her blog at, Natasha Godard, says that gender stereotypes exist in the beer world just as they do outside of it. The craft beer population does not seem to be as diverse as it could be, and it’s a topic people don’t generally want to discuss, Godard says.

“I think women’s groups in general are good across society, but particularly in things that are generally male-dominated or perceived that way,” says Godard. Especially, she notes, if they bring in members with a variety of ethnicities and ages.

The Girls Pint Out Connecticut women at Hartford Prints! in Hartford. Photo by Will Siss
The Girls Pint Out Connecticut women at Hartford Prints! in Hartford. Photo by Will Siss

After deciding on another beer to try at Hartford Prints!, Manuel weighs in on sexism in the beer world, in particular questionable names that breweries give their beers. She’s pretty open-minded about it. “I might not run out to buy it, but do what you think is best for your brand,” she says. “You should just know that there’s a large amount of beer buyers that might be turned off by it. If you are willing to take that bet, good for you. I’d just rather buy a beer that doesn’t make me feel sleazy.”

Safe space

In some ways, GPO represents an oasis from all of that regressive, narrow-mindedness. Most of the participants showed some level of relief at finding out about CT GPO.

“I was instantly interested when I found out about Girls Pint Out,” says Shannon Lowry, 27, who three months ago moved to Hartford from San Antonio, Texas, with her fiancé. “I wanted to meet like-minded individuals.”

Other participants talked about how CT GPO gives them a safe space to talk about beer and ask questions.

“In some conversations I hang back,” says Pam Harrison, 41, a school psychologist who lives in Wethersfield, “but here I have more of a voice.”

A version of this column was originally published in August 2015 in the Waterbury (Conn.) Republican-American.

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